Back to Basics: The Modern Gentleman

Its Good To Be Back

2010-11-04T09:08:00.000-07:00

Hello there! Wow, it feels great to be back on the Modern Gentleman's Blog. If you are reading this and were once a regular reader then I am glad you have continued to check in during my long hiatus. If your new to The Modern Gentleman and this is the first post you are reading then keep checking in. Here at the Modern Gentleman's site we cover everything from men's fashion, classic cocktails, and the "lost art of living" to business, news, art and everything in between that would interest the involved and sophisticated Modern Gent. It feels good to be back, look forward to regular posts soon!

-The Modern Gent

Culinary Event of the Year?

2010-04-15T10:12:00.000-07:00

Culinary event of the year is definitely a lofty title to attach to an event. Especially when there is so much of the year left to experience. However, unlike other fantastical claims (think Titanic) this is one ship that will not be sinking. The innovative folks at Dinner Party Atlanta (whom I have detailed on this blog before-see "For Every Action There is A Reaction") have come up with an amazing food and wine driven evening experience. The best part about it? You still have time to get in!
So, what is this event all about? Let me throw some components your way, I think you will agree that this is definitely a must-attend event.

1. Outdoor, early evening event in Piedmont Park. (Think cool evening, romantic lighting, fantastic conversation and amazing eats)
2. Cocktail hour featuring original creations from some of Atlanta's most well known and innovative bartenders
3. Eight chefs each preparing a four course original menu of their choosing. Oh yea, the chefs include many familiar faces from Bravo's Top Chef and local Atlanta favorites
4. All products sourced from local farms that are of the highest quality
5. Wine pairings from Georgia's only Master Sommelier Michael McNeil of Quality Wine and Spirits
6. Profits go towards Pope High School and Georgia farms.

Aren't convinced yet that this evening is going to be phenomenal? Then let me tell you that the entire evening (cocktails, 4-course meal, 4-wine pairings) is only going to run you 95 bucks. $95, I might add, that heads straight towards a great cause.

This is one event that you truly do not want to miss out on. If you can swing it, head to www.dinnerpartyatlanta.com and head to the May 1st dinner section. Get some more details and reserve your seat for you and your companions. See you there!

A Cold Beer, Pack of Smokes, and Steve McQueen

2010-03-24T16:12:00.000-07:00

Its been quite sometime since I have posted anything to the Modern Gentleman's blog. I was going to apologize for that but then I realized that would mean I was apologizing to fans or something. While I may be a little bit cocky, I am not out of touch-I realize no one was loosing sleep over my lack of posts. So, all I will say is that an extremely busy schedule and a lack of inspiration have lead to my two week hiatus. That's all changing this week though. Just a little while ago I stumbled on Life Magazine's recent post to their website that features 21 candid photo of the ultimate bad-ass gentleman Steve McQueen. Here's the link: STEVE MCQUEEN. I am not going to go into to much details on these photos because I want you to check 'em out for yourself but I will say this; cigarette smoking, beer chugging, gun shooting, and laying in the back of a pick up truck can only be made to look glamorous by, what I would consider, a true Modern Gentleman. If you missed my description of a Modern Gentleman a couple of months ago when I started all of this blog stuff, just look at these pictures. A true modern gentleman is not afraid to get his hands dirty, have a good time, break the rules, or shoot a hand gun in this case. The only responsibility a modern gentleman has is to act appropriately in whatever situation he finds himself in, and sometimes you find yourself with a six back of beer, pack of smokes, dusty pair of jeans and an old t-shirt. I say, dig in.

What You Should Be Drinking Right Now: Craft Brews

2010-03-13T12:12:00.000-08:00

Ah yes, finally another edition of "What You Should Be Drinking Right Now". This one is a little different because as opposed to giving you a specific cocktail to mix up, I have some overall advice. Explore the world of beer. I used to shrug beer off as nothing more than a watered down filler that took up to much expensive real estate in my stomach that could be better utilized with a stiff drink. Actually, a few of my friends and I have had many a heated debate over the phrase "beer is the new wine". While I wont go as far as to agree with that statement in its entirety, I am now willing to give beer a little bit more credit. I am sure you have noticed that many bars and restaurants now have extensive beer lists and the servers and bartenders at these establishments are well versed in the language of the "craft brewery". I have had the opportunity to taste many of these craft brewery concoctions and I have to say, the flavors are really interesting and sipping a new beer has proved to be an enjoyable experience. Some restaurants are even going as far as pairing beers with certain menu items much like you would do with wine. Gone are the times when you could get away with ordering a bud light or miller lite. Go that route and your are liable to get an evil eye from a bartender and maybe even a suggestion to try something a little more adventurous. I am not going to recommend any specific beers to try, I am just going to leave you with this; don't be so quick to judge beer like I was. Give it a chance. Head to your favorite liquor store, shoot over to the beer aisle and pick something up that looks interesting that you have never heard of. Better yet, support your favorite bar or restaurant and ask for the bartenders suggestion on a great new beer to enjoy. I think you will be pleasantly surprised. Happy drinking.

(Picture Above: Organic, Craft Brew-Selection)

Get Out of The Gym: Train Like Rocky.

2010-03-11T11:00:00.000-08:00

(This segment is brought to you by the Modern Gentleman's health and wellness specialist DMG)

They gym is not for everyone. Weight training is a great way to gain muscle, burn fat, and get in shape; but if you're like me, then you probably don't enjoy spending 4-5 days a week indoors with a bunch of sweaty dudes talking supplements and hanging out in saunas. The "Get out of the Gym" segment will be a monthly staple in the fitness section of The Modern Gentleman, and I am a firm believer that getting out of the gym and training like an athlete makes exercise more effective and enjoyable.

For this month's segment, it's time to get outside and train like Rocky. In fitting with the "Back to Basics" theme of this blog, here's some classics that require less than $5 and yield results quickly.

Jump rope. All you need is a jump-rope, some good shoes, and practice, practice, practice. Jumping rope is an essential part of many athlete's training regiments- from boxers to skiers to football players. Jumping rope increases coordination, agility, quickness, footwork, and endurance while toning your shoulders and providing a scorching card workout. Here's some tips to get started jumping rope:

1. Select a rope: Jumping ropes are cheap, and you can usually find a good one at your local sporting goods store or online. They come in several different materials and lengths- just buy a lightweight, plastic speed rope and don't spend much on it. Usually less than $10, sometimes less than $5 if you look around. Typically ropes are 8-10 ft long- most at the stores will be 9 ft. If your 6' tall or less, a 9 ft. rope will usually be fine, if you're much taller than that you may have to get a 10 ft. rope.

2. Technique. Jumping rope isn't something you will be good at you're first time, believe me. It takes practice to get the hang of it, but once you got it-the benefits are huge. Start with skill workouts. The purpose of your initial workouts will be to develop your rope-jumping skills and coordination. Expect frustration at first, but don't give up! There are endless skills to learn to keep your conditioning challenging and enjoyable, but start with basic two foot jumps (the rope will skip once for every jump) with both feet. After you've got that down, move on to alternating your feet as if you are running in place. *Pick your knees straight up and land on the balls of your feet, you're not taking a full stride here. ISCAfit.com (International Sports Conditioning Association) is a good resource for more advanced techniques.

3. Shoes & surface. Wear a good pair of cross trainers when you jump rope- running shoes don't have enough cushion for landing on the balls of your feet. Also, try to jump rope on a more forgiving surface like a track rather than on concrete; it'll save your feet and ankles a world of hurt.

Got the basics down? Check this guy out for inspiration.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MfhJjbNNJE.

Run Stairs. A park or a stadium will do fine for this. Sprint up stadium stairs like Balboa does in Philly. After that, jog back down and do "mountain climbers" on the bottom step (Running motion, pump your arms, ball of your foot touches the step and alternate quickly. *It's not how fast you get off the step, it's how quickly your feet explode off the ground that counts.)

These two workouts are simple. Jumping rope will take a little more practice, but they will definitely get you out of the gym and provide some variety for your workouts. Only got 20-30 minutes to squeeze in a workout? Try this:

1. Jump rope for 1-2 minutes without stopping to warm up. Jump as quickly as you can based on your skill level and incorporate different techniques throughout the jump. This will get your heart rate up and ready for the workout. *Bump some upbeat music in your Ipod to help keep the tempo up.

2.As soon as you're done jumping rope, sprint up the stadium stairs. When you reach the top, turn around and jog back down, pump out 20 mountain climbers on the bottom step and then drop down for 10-20 quick push-ups. You have just completed 1 set. Take 30-60 seconds to scrape your lungs off the pavement and repeat. You'll want to get in at least 3 sets, possibly 5 based on your fitness level. You'll be shocked when you look at your watch and realize you spent 15 minutes working out and you are completely whipped.

Stay Tuned,

DMG

Saturday Style Note: Hats Off to Hats that Look Great On.

2010-03-06T15:20:00.000-08:00

This edition of the Saturday Style Note comes a little bit late in the day thanks to a pretty great party last night. Actually, quick shout to Mike and Derek who put on a great event last night, best wishes and good luck goes out to the Rock and Egg Productions team. Needless to say, a great open bar last night led to a slow and lazy Saturday afternoon. What I wanted to hit on briefly today was hats. Somewhere down the line, us men got a little confused and we thought it was appropriate to wear backwards hats and visors with pre-frayed brims (not so much the visors anymore but there was a time when they were everywhere). Believe it or not, there was a time when hats were extremely stylish and, for the most part, a necessity of a mans everyday wardrobe. Its not to say that great hats dont exist today, actually that's what I am going to show you, its just that the selection for most men got sloppy, right along with the rest of their clothes. Not only does the type of hat matter, but the manner in which you wear it matters as well. For instance, the fedora is an O.K. choice but you have to have a lot of confidence and personal style to tie it into your wardrobe in a seamless way. Otherwise, its going to look pretty contrived. In another example, the military cap is a great casual choice but not if your wearing a tie a blazer, in that case a "drivers cap" or a "news-boy" cap is going to get the job done a little bit better. Without any further delay, here are my picks for the most appropriate hats of the times and some pictures of how to incorporate them into your daily dress.

I like this simple, yet stylish and unique "dress" hat. This style is typically made out of felt and is close to being what is considered a derby. Either way, if you want to put a hat on in a casual way, why not go this route as opposed to a baseball cap?

This is one of my personal favorites-The "Newsboy" cap. I wear one of these out more than a couple of times a week. This type of hat does vary in shape so you have to find one that is going to frame your face correctly. Some get really wide on the sides, some are really "floppy" on top. I like the streamlined style that is narrow and not flimsy or floppy at all. As you can tell in the photo, these hats look great with a cardigan, or a tie and jeans combo.

The Military Cap. I am a fan of these, but this is just about as casual as I am willing to go. However, the variety of fabric types, prints, and shapes you can get with this style adds that extra hint of style that makes it a much better option than any regular old hat. My one recommendation for this cap is to get one that is vintage. No brands, or logos anywhere on the hat. That kind of ruins the appeal to this military type of look.

With these great options you should never feel the need to put on your dingy old baseball cap. Playing a sport is just about the only place that style is going to be appropriate. Take it up a notch and try out one of these great hats the next time your compelled to cover up your mop.

Forget New Years Resolutions. Try out a March Resolution. DMG's Health and Wellness Segment, March 2nd

2010-03-02T08:44:00.001-08:00

Another great post by health and wellness specialist-DMG. Enjoy.
Pjones

Well, it’s March now, and if you look in the mirror you might notice that your New Year’s resolutions have faded into a distant memory. Sure, the first few weeks were great- you were exercising regularly, drinking less (perhaps still getting over New Years Eve), and you may have even lost a few pounds; but, if you are like the vast majority of resolution-makers, by this time you’re goals have gone to the wayside and you have resorted back to old habits.
In a Quirkology.com experiment, over 3000 people were tracked with regards to their achievement of a range of resolutions, including losing weight, visiting the gym, quitting smoking, and drinking less. At the start of the study, 52% of participants were confident of success. One year later, only 12% actually achieved their goal. I’m going out on a limb here, but I would venture a guess that of those 12% that “achieved” their goal that year, even fewer are still on track today.
Maybe people fail to achieve their New Year’s resolutions so frequently because they have no self control. Perhaps peoples’ abilities to focus on a goal and achieve it are predetermined or fixed- much like one’s height or eye color. Or perhaps they just had the wrong resolution.
In keeping with Diego’s “You failed because you had the wrong dream” philosophy (Prison scene in “Blow”- a classic. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, rent it.), I believe that people fall short of achieving their New Year’s resolutions year after year because they are simply making the wrong resolution. They fail because they have the wrong dream.
Psychologist Albert Bandura has defined self-efficacy as our belief in our ability to succeed in specific situations. Moreover, the belief that one is capable of performing in a certain manner to attain certain goals. Self efficacy can be measured as a continuum, with two extremes: high and low. Individuals who believe that they have a limited amount of self-control and that they cannot change are said to have low self-efficacy. These individuals might say things like, “I can’t stop ______(eating chocolate, smoking, drinking- pick your poison), I inherited that gene.” These people have little belief in their ability to carry out their goals, and therefore are perennial resolution-breakers. On the other end of the continuum, you have those with high self-efficacy. These people believe that self control is malleable, unlimited, and dynamic. They might say something like, “I can stop___, all I have to do is put my mind to it.” Resolve to be the latter.
Important distinction- self efficacy is not the same as self esteem. “Self esteem relates to a person’s sense of self-worth, whereas self efficacy relates to a person’s perception of their ability to reach a goal.”-psychology.wikia.com. In order to achieve a goal, you must create a plan and truly believe in your ability to achieve that goal. Tips to get back on track with your resolutions:
1. Work hard to create the “right” resolutions. Have the right dream. If you have made the same resolution a few times and have failed each year, change your resolution.
2. If you have broad resolutions- i.e. getting in shape- create a detailed plan in order to achieve it. Example: Instead of saying “I’m going to lose weight to look better”, plan substitute items on your grocery list (1% milk, fresh instead of frozen, natural instead of processed), create a workout schedule (yoga class Tuesday & Thursday, weights on Wednesday, recreational soccer league on Saturday), and most importantly- view relapses as laughable deviations from the plan instead of failure, and get back on track tomorrow.
3. Make one resolution.
4. Be ambitious, but realistic. Setting a goal that is just out of reach, but not out of sight will help you to achieve it.
5. Resolve to educate yourself. Instead of resolving to lose 15 pounds, resolve to learn how to eat healthier and exercise to effectively reach your goals. Read “The All-Pro Diet” by Tony Gonzalez for a great healthy-eating read. You don’t have to take it as gospel, but Tony Gonzalez is a 10 time pro-bowl selection and a freak of an athlete. Maybe eating like him isn’t such a bad idea.

While you’re at it, educate yourself on the psychology of motivation and figure out what works for you.

Personally, I do not like New Year’s resolutions. Why not make a March resolution? Why not a today resolution? If you lack the self control to achieve your resolution, your resolution should be to increase your self control. Have a higher self efficacy- the more you believe in your own capabilities, the more likely you will succeed. Believe that self control is malleable, and not fixed; without commitment to sculpting your mental ability to achieve greatness, physical results will be empty. Make a plan and stick to it- if you waiver, get back on track as soon as possible. Read.
Stay tuned-
DMG

Get Your Week Started Right: Quote of the Day 02/28/10

2010-02-28T16:20:00.001-08:00

I feel that there are two types of people out there. Those who look at the future and immediately feel a rush of anxiety and panic at what the unknown will hold for them, and those who embrace what the future will hold and cant wait to move forward and experience that. I can say that at one point a few years back I might have been person number one. However, even in recent difficult times, I have become person number two. I have no idea what tomorrow will hold, but I am excited for it. Who will I meet, what networking opportunity will present itself, what contact made a few weeks back will decide to email me tomorrow? These, and many more questions, are what I look forward to answering each time I think about the future. In honor of this out-look, I have a quote by Abraham Lincoln:

“The best thing about the future is that it comes only one day at a time.”-Abraham Lincoln.

Look forward to tomorrow, take it how it comes, and learn from it and shape it into what you want.

Upgrade Your Gear: Ditch the Outdated Duffel, Meet the Appropriate Messenger

2010-02-26T11:44:00.000-08:00

I am not sure how much walking you do throughout the day but if your living situation is like mine, then you probably walk all around town. Living in a city means lots of convenience and most of what you need is accessible in just a few blocks walk. What I am getting at is that doing so much walking calls for a great bag to carry all of your things. I used to have a laptop type carrying case that I would jam other books and materials into along with my laptop. The space was OK, but the quality was terrible and the zipper would always give me troubles. The worst part was the short, uncomfortable strap that would constantly slip off my shoulder and pull my suit-coats and blazers down off my shoulder and twist up my collars. Needless to say, after experiencing this unpleasantness everyday it wore on me. Not only is the functionality important, but whatever your lugging around with you should reflect...well, you. Even though some of the menswear sites and magazines are praising the come-back of the leather pack back, I hate having a back pack on when I am wearing a suit. For that matter, I hate the look of a back pack when I am wearing anything, its just a little to childish for me. So, what are some great bags? I really feel that you cant go wrong with the messenger bag. Not the ones that the street bicycle riders sport with the seat belt buckle for the clasp that holds the bag up on your back while you ride through the city. I am talking about one like this Levis Canvas Messenger Bag. (Buy It Here).

With a bag like this one your going to be able to fit all of your materials, the product is going to hold up , and its going to be comfortable on your shoulder. If you like a more professional look then I would suggested a bag like this one

This is actually the bag that I use currently. Its very durable and has tons of space in it. There are at least three different compartments to separate your laptop from your books from your papers. The strap is a great length and the solid brown leather lends its self to a more professional look. I can go from using this bag to take my laptop down to the coffee shop, to loading up for a meeting and toting it with me while I am dressed in a suit. Also, the leather gets a vintage look to it after a couple of months which I really like.

To switch gears a little bit, I move to the weekend bag. If you make a lot of two day trips, tend to leave the city for weekends, or have a significant other with whom you stay with often then you need to invest in a great weekend bag. Especially with the Summer right around the corner, trips to the lake, beach or pool might require you to have one of these great bags on hand. Awhile ago I used to use this late 90's sport tech looking duffel bag that was way to big for what I needed it for. I would literally put one pair of shoes, pants a shirt and my shaving kit in a bag that could hold a weeks worth of gear. Needless to say much like my busted up laptop case, carrying this behemoth around got old real quick. A simple canvas weekend bag will do you a world of good if your out of the house like I am. Here are a couple of options that are really affordable and will get the job done.

Bag By Ralph Lauren

Bag By Banana Republic

Simple Canvas Weekender

Do your self a favor and stop dealing with the busted up, old bag your using now and upgrade your gear. You will feel relieved to throw a comfortable messenger bag over your shoulder whether your headed into work or to the coffee shop to relax. Don't forget about weekends either, ditch the outdated duffel and pack accordingly.

Which Tie Knots are In and which are.....Knot.

2010-02-23T21:39:00.000-08:00

The world of fashion and the tips, trends and information that goes along with it are purely subjective. What makes sense to one person will sometimes make sense to the next and sometimes it wont. However, there are those times when following a few simple rules can help you out dramatically. So far, The Modern Gentleman's blog has maybe hit on one or two of those types of situations that call for rules. Well, here is another one. Tie Knots: What they are, how to tie 'em and when to wear 'em. Whether you choose to believe me or not is entirely up to you but I can tell you that not only do tie width's come in and out of style but tie knots do as well. I figured this was appropriate seeing as how my last fashion-minded post dealt with shirt collar care (GQ followed suit-ha-and just ran a feature with Drake talking all about shirt collars).

It is safe to say that there are at least twelve to fifteen different tie knots in existence. However, since most of those are completely irrelevant I am going to focus on three that many credible sources have determined to be the most popular..and I agree. The three I am referring to are the four in hand, the half windsor, the windsor.

Four-in-hand: This is the classic knot. This one is going to get you through pretty much any situation that you can think of. While some believe that this knot works better with wider ties featuring a heavy fabric, I wear this knot with all different types of tie widths. I will say though, because the knot itself tends to be long and slender, a heavier fabric is important. Otherwise you will compromise the body of the tie knot and it wont really stand up with what your wearing.

The Half-Windsor: A milder version of the Windsor (probably goes without saying). This is more assertive tie knot. Its going to be a little bit bolder than the four in hand knot and might project more confidence...at least as much as a tie knot can project confidence. As one might assume, this knot has been considered a bit more conservative of recent (which I agree with) and would definitely be appropriate in business. In my personal opinion, I don't believe this knot is as versatile due to the fact that it doesn't have a stylish look to it. Its kind of just bold. A lighter weight fabric is going to work best with this knot due to its already large size.

The Windsor: The Grand-daddy of these three tie knots (both in size and because it makes me think of someone much older) is the Windsor. If you don't want to go bold than I would avoid this knot. Your likely to see Donald Trump or Jay-Z sporting this one. You need to wear a spread collar with this tie and not a traditional button down collar or any others that frame the tie knot a little more tightly. Your going to need all the room you can get with this one. Also, you need a slightly longer tie to pull of this look because a lot of it is going to get tied up (sorry, that's the second pun of this piece) in the massive knot your working on.

A New Contributor, A New Segment. DMG Joins the Modern Gentleman

2010-02-23T13:15:00.001-08:00

Hello All. As I mentioned last weekend, a new contributor is joining Back To Basics: The Modern Gentleman. I am extremely excited to have his contributions to the blog and I believe they are going to be extremely beneficial and entertaining. Check in for more great info from this Modern Gentleman. Without further a due, the new to the team gentleman and myself bring you the sustainable health and fitness segment of the blog. Enjoy.
------Pjones

If you were around Atlanta this weekend, and you don’t live under a rock, you probably were thinking the same thing I was- Georgia weather is flat-out strange.

Just over a week ago, PJones (the modern gentleman himself) and I were kicking around a few new business ideas over a Jameson on the rocks while our cars were covered in 5 inches of snow, and this weekend the whole world was outside at Piedmont park, shirtless, and soaking in some warmly-welcomed sun. You’ve got to love these days in Georgia- these days each year that make you think winter has passed and soon the Braves will take the field and you can make your first trip to the lake. But with this weather comes a few realizations about how your year is progressing- 1) winter is almost over, and it seems like just yesterday you were jotting down lofty resolutions while nursing a hangover, and 2) while 2010 is 15% gone already, you are nowhere closer than you were two months ago to your health and fitness goals.

I bring up the GA weather for a reason. I spent the warm days this past weekend at an intown park playing some pickup soccer with old friends, and I noticed a few things about my fellow park-going Atlantans regarding their fitness. At one extreme there were the obviously out-of-shape guys who lacked the knowledge, or more likely the motivation, to shape-up and live in a healthy body; and at the other extreme there were the guys with “popcorn muscles”.
(“Popcorn muscles” is a phrase that was introduced to me recently by an old friend who sent an NO-Xplode-drinking meat-head flipping ass over teacup while competing for a rebound in a pickup basketball game earlier this month. All puffy- but light and weak.)

If your fitness goals are to do as many curls as possible and get “popcorn muscles”, then read no further. This segment of the blog is not for you. This segment will deal with functional strength- health and fitness tips and techniques that will improve your strength, energy and endurance, hone your ability to focus, and improve aspects of your life from your mood to your sleep patterns (not to mention your body and subsequent inability of your girl to keep her hands off you).

This month’s theme will be shaping up for spring and getting “back on track” with new years resolutions. In weeks to come you can expect pieces that deal with not just diet and exercise tips, but also psychological tools to keep you moving towards a lifelong goal of functional fitness.

This is not a “feel-good” segment- I am not a motivational speaker. I am a modern gentleman who understands the importance of functional strength and its many benefits.

-Stay tuned

DMG

Grifters, Cons and Three Piece Suits

2010-02-22T15:33:00.000-08:00

Sometimes you just can't recreate the fun and the style that is intertwined in so many great old-school films. This past Saturday night, in between eating dinner and getting ready to go out for the night, I happened to catch a great film that I had never seen before, The Sting directed by George Roy Hill and written by David S. Ward in 1973. I should have known it was going to be a great film when I saw that Paul Newman and Robert Redford were staring in it and I was not let down. Redford and Newman play two Grifters that are famous for their cunning cons they set up on unsuspecting "marks" and the film revolves around one massive con they play in Chicago. In the same classically cool way that Clooney and Pitt pull of amazing heists in the Oceans 11 movies, Redford and Newman craft a genius plan to con a shady banker out of one million bucks. I wont give away any more of the plot but there are some great twists and turns and even though some of them are predictable, some of them keep you guessing. Aside from being a great film, the style exhibited by Newman and Redford is impeccable. You dont see either of the characters in anything but three piece suits and tuxedos the whole time. Pretty much, the film made me wish we still lived in a time when every gentleman always sported such attire. In one scene in particular Redford heads into a local dive at about 3 in the morning after a long night and is wearing a blue three piece suit but without the tie, leaving his top collar undone a couple of buttons. You cant beat a great film with amazing, classical style. Check it out, The Modern Gentleman definitely endorses this classic film. Oh yea, I forgot to mention the 7 Oscars this picture took home!

Here's What's Coming Your Way

2010-02-21T09:45:00.001-08:00

I am just about back to full health (thanks to sleep, cold medicine and some whiskey sprinkled in here and there) and that means back to posting regularly. Here's a quick list of whats coming up this week:

1. A Modern Gentleman contributor begins his regular segment on healthy eating/living and some other interesting stuff. He has got some really great information to share, I am glad he's joining the team.

2. How to build your own at home bar with only a little space and a little money.

3. More additions to your spring wardrobe. Do's, donts, and where to pick up some great pieces.

4. A couple of small random surprises thrown in.

Stay tuned in this up-coming week, I appreciate every one's continued support. If you'd like to see anything change or have any sort of feedback please feel free to email me at pjones083232@gmail.com. Enjoy your Sunday.

Hob Nob Opens in Atlanta

2010-02-19T10:45:00.000-08:00

A brand new gastro-pub opens up today on the corner of Piedmont and Monroe...Hob Nob Neighborhood Tavern. Due to the close proximity to my house, I have been seeing the daily development of the space from what used to be an old Caribou Coffee into a Restaurant and bar. I have to say, I have been intrigued this entire time. It is not often that you see a coffee shop get turned into a bar and grill. That fact alone intrigues me because I just want to see how the designers re-organized the space. The decor inside consists of orange-ish walls, chandeliers with candles, a full fireplace, stacked stone, full bar, outdoor heated patio, private party space, and free valet parking. The food seems to be interesting enough and, although I have not tried it, I have a feeling its going to be your average (or maybe slightly above average) bar/snack food. A couple of the things I don't like; Their colors are black and orange on a shield shaped sign that says hob nob with silhouettes of people. The color scheme and logo does nothing for me. Actually, it makes me think of Halloween and I keep wanting to say hob goblin not hob nob because of the Halloween specific colors and old chandeliers with candles and all of that. Also, the location is strange. What was once a gas station, then coffee shop, and now restaurant is plopped right on the corner between other gas stations and absolutely zero parking. Its also a little difficult to actually turn into. Lastly, its right across the street from an Atlanta staple in the music and bar scene..Smith's Old Bar. Smiths is a place I enjoy frequenting and I just cant see myself heading over to Hob Nob as opposed to smiths. I love the restaurant industry and all that it has to offer and I hope for nothing but success for Hob Nob but my prediction is that its not going to last. Confusing concept, design, and location lends itself to some weaknesses. If your looking for a drink your probably going to head to Smiths, not Hob Nob

Beat Down For the Common Cold....Drink Anyone?

2010-02-17T18:21:00.000-08:00

I have definitely been a little light on the posts this week and that's due to being weighed down with a heavy cold. In honor of this cold, or whatever it is that is bogging me down, I give to you my cold remedy. You will not be surprised to find that it involves the consumption of alcohol, but hey, why lay on the couch and be miserable? I am sure that most of you reading this have heard of this concoction before, and probably have even tried one in your travels. Anyways, what I am talking about is the hot toddy. Here's how to make it

Step 1

Boil a cup or 2 of water and pour into a mug.

Step 2

Place an herbal tea bag or a decaffeinated tea bag into the mug and steep for 5 minutes.

Step 3

Add 1 to 2 tsp. honey to the tea.

Step 4

Add 1 shot (approximately 2 oz.) of bourbon, whiskey or rum.

Step 5

Stir thoroughly.

Step 6

Breathe in the steam from the hot toddy as you sip.

I don't think its that strange to use whiskey as a cold treatment. It beats rubbing Vick's on your nose and popping dayquil and NyQuil all day long while you suck on throat lozenges. Back in the day (really far back in the day) mothers used to rub small amounts of whiskey on their kids gum's to get them to sleep and to help with teething. Alcoholic remedies were often times used to treat minor illness's. So, don't let a cold get you down at night. Mix up a hot toddy kick back on the couch. Hey, think of it this way, you have an excuse to be a little lazy for once. Your sick remember?( I am not providing medical advice here, just telling you that, as an adult with a cold, this method helps with my cold at night).

Saturday Style Note: Collars, Cuffs, and Other Stuff

2010-02-13T10:54:00.000-08:00

Another week down and another edition of the Saturday Style Note is coming your way. I don't know where you will be reading this from but down here in Atlanta there is about three inches of snow on the ground. Very strange, I though I left the snow in Chicago. Anyways, one of my pet-peeves is when I put on a dress shirt, or any button down shirt for that matter, and the collar is sloppy. What I mean is that the collar is flattened down, and the edges curl up. Depending on the quality of the shirt you can even start to see some slight wrinkles around the collar. Below is a great way to avoid this problem, take care of your shirts and iron and starch them properly. Here's how:

1. As you might expect, get your iron and a flat space to work. (No brain-er there)
2. Start with the inside of the shirt facing up and flatten out the collar completely. Spray some starch all over it and iron out the collar completely.You can iron from the outside in or the other way around. Whatever you feel gives you the smoothest collar
3. Flip the shirt over, spray the other side of the collar with starch and repeat your ironing motion.
4. Once you have done that, fold the collar over, like how you would actually wear the shirt. Iron along the fold for a crisp collar.

If you like, you can repeat these same steps with your cuffs. Unbutton them, starch iron, flip over and repeat.

If ironing and cleaning your dress shirts and other items isn't your thing than you need to become very good friends with a very good cleaner. Actually, every man needs to have his go to cleaner that he can depend on and trust his nicest clothes with. If your in the Atlanta area than I would like to recommend one. Sig Samuels. This place has great customer service, the kind that has pretty much been lost in business's like this one. Ladies, if your picking up clothes for you or your boyfriend/husband/ect... you can count on them carrying your load out to your car for you. They also know all of their customers by name and do a great job handling your items. They have won "best of Atlanta" a few times and they are definitely worthy of chance to impress you. They are located of off Monroe by the Midtown Arts Cinema in Midtown. However you decide to do it, take care of your shirts. You dont want to be the guy with the collar laying flat, looking like your auditioning for a a remake of Saturday Night Fever.

A Bone To Pick With GQ For Spring

2010-02-12T09:37:00.001-08:00

I like GQ as much as the next guy and when I was younger I would read them regularly to learn a little bit about men's fashion. Where else are you going to learn what type of suit fabric to wear during what season before you even own a suit? Anyways, recently I dropped by their website and read a story about essential spring items. I was pretty annoyed. Ill spare you all the details and just tell you that red and blue shiny boat shoes, plastic sunglasses and boring prep striped ties were all they had featured. (see the ridiculousness here: GQ Spring Must Haves)

Here are some inspired ways to go about getting ideas for things you might want to pick up for spring.

These are just a few examples to get you going in the right direction. Basically, its more about the color, fabric weight/type, cut, and fit as opposed to GQ's personal recommendation of buying items to make you look like your constantly on a boat. I am not suggesting you take the looks above literally but some of the details are great. For instance, the light brown dress shoes with the blue pants, the white jacket on top of a gray suit or just gray pants, vintage flannel shirt under a blazer. All of these things are more accurate for spring, in my opinion, than GQ's essentials list.

R.I.P Mcqueen

2010-02-11T11:25:00.000-08:00

A great designer, a great innovator. He will not be forgotten, his work will live on.

Keep your home in shape without lifting a finger

2010-02-09T14:33:00.001-08:00

You take pride in yourself, you take pride in your work, so don't let your apartment/home/condo be any different. Knowing how to conduct yourself, being well dressed, and being well prepared for work is extremely important but so many people forget to take care of a place they spend a whole lot of time in; where they call home! First of all, you never know when you may have company drop by and you might not have time to do a 911 emergency clean up. Nothing is worse than walking into a house that is destroyed and cluttered. What speaks more about a person than their own personal space? Also, for your own mental well being it is important to keep up with your home. I cant necessarily speak for everyone, but if I have to sit down to get some work done at home and my house is cluttered and dirty, I cant focus until its cleaned up. What a waste of time to have to spend an hour cleaning before you can sit down and get your work done. Anyways, I have found a great solution that I think will help you out tremendously.

Now when I first saw this product I thought it was a little bit out there and doubted its credibility. However, after using it I can say that I am truly impressed. Ever heard of the Roomba? Its pretty much a cleaning robot that you charge up, turn on and then turn loose on your carpets, or hardwood floor. The Roomba isn't going to put away your clothes for you but it does an amazing job vacuuming your carpets and sweeping up your hardwood floors. I turn it on when Iam about to leave the house in the morning and when I come home my carpet is completely clean, and my hardwood floors in my kitchen are spotless. Mine is a pretty basic model but you can get extra options so that the Roomba goes back to its charger when its done cleaning and charges itself, you can also set up sensors if you want it to avoid certain rooms. Check this product out here...I urge you to try it and keep your house looking great all the time. That way, you will never have to worry if you are out, meet someone, and want to bring them back to your house...Roomba has you covered. Roomba Website

Rules For Man-Jewels

2010-02-08T14:49:00.000-08:00

Happy Monday everyone, I hope your week has started out how you hoped it would. This past weekend while I was out around town I saw a fellow bar patron sporting a pretty ridiculous look and it got me thinking about a few things. The look I am referring to? About five bracelets on one wrist, a necklace, a large cuff on the other wrist and more than a couple of rings. I am all for jewelry as long as it is tastefully done. For instance, a watch is great and every gentleman should have a nice, go to time piece. I have stated that many times before. Even a bracelet, one bracelet, is o.k. if its a classic sterling silver or gold or any other precious metal but that's about it. Now, exception to the rule? If you wear jewelry that has personal meaning to you. I wear a necklace that I was given when I turned 21 and my brother wears the exact same necklace that he received when he was 21. The difference is that it is personal and I keep it that way. I wear it under my shirt or undershirt, I don't wear it on the outside of my clothes. I also wear one silver ring that I was given as a present and it is a simple silver band. There is no conceivable reason that a man should feel the need to wear more jewelry than his girlfriend. A watch, or one metal bracelet, or even one thin leather bracelet is o.k. but leave it at that. I am not trying to hinder your personal sense of style, just giving it some guidance. Less is more on this one guys.

AVOID EVERY PIECE OF JEWELRY THAT IS PICTURED BELOW

AVOID EVERY PIECE OF JEWELRY THAT IS PICTURED ABOVE

Get Your Week Started Right: Its All About Passion

2010-02-07T11:10:00.000-08:00

This past Friday I had the amazing opportunity to work with some innovative professionals who provide an interesting and unique eating and drinking experience that isn't being done anywhere else in Atlanta (Dinner Party Atlanta). Having the chance to work along side people who are dedicated to their service and passionate about it was refreshing and contagious. You couldn't help but to get just as excited as they were about what was going on and I really enjoyed it. It made me realize how important it is to find your passion in life and to truly enjoy what you do. When you love what you do, you have the capability to capture the attention of your customers and they return what you put out. This week, think about what you love to do, what you are truly passionate about, and find a way to make it your career. It just might be the most gratifying thing you can do.

“When work, commitment, and pleasure all become one and you reach that deep well where passion lives, nothing is impossible.” - anonymous

Saturday Style Note: Get Layered

2010-02-06T08:41:00.001-08:00

I cant believe Iam already writing another installment of the "Saturday Style Note", this week has absolutely flown by. I was a little light on the posts this week partly because I have been extremely busy with some events that were all planned for the same week, and partly because I really just wanted to leave up the V-Day gift guide because its useful and I have been getting alot of positive feedback from it. Anyways, things have slowed down a little bit and I finally have time to sit down and get back at it, right in time for the style note. What I want to put out there today is layering. I don't know about you, but even down in Atlanta we got a few days of warm weather (60's) and then BAM back down into the 40's and 30's.I also know the Northeast was/is supposed to get a record breaking snow storm this weekend. Here I thought it was time to break out the style notes for what to pick up for spring but I guess I jumped the gun. The picture that is below is a great example of how you should be layering. Iam not talking about the frat look where you wear three different polo's or anything ridiculous like that.

(Photograph by photoblogger Tommy Ton)
As I always advocate, simplicity is key. A white ribbed Henley, under a classic button down shirt with a button down collar and a vest thrown on top. The gentleman in this photo pulls off the "understated cool" that the M.G. blog references often. Go to your closet and look at the simple, understated pieces that you have and then start to combine them and see what you get. Its like mixing up a new cocktail, sometimes you get it right and sometimes you have to swap ingredients. The most important part for me is that each individual piece needs to be simple enough to blend with other items, but nice enough to wear by itself if you wanted to. Follow that rule and layering will be a breeze for you....who knew looking good meant you could stay warm at the same time.

V-Day Gift Guide For Gents and Ladies Alike

2010-02-02T21:43:00.001-08:00

As I am sure you are all very aware Valentines Day is fastly approaching and that means many of you are scrambling for gift ideas, dinner plans, and anything else you can get your hands on to make this Valentines a special one. I applaud your efforts, but as I always say its better to work smarter, not harder. So look no further because what I have compiled for you here is a great guide to some Valentines gifts. Don't wait to long on this one guys....if your female interest tells you its not a big deal and she doesn't care what you do/what you get her, SHES LYING! And ladies, I have even thrown a few quick ideas for what you can get for the man in your life because who says Valentines day cant be for us as well? Check this list out and if there's anything your dying to get/give and you want to voice your opinion then leave a comment!

For The Woman In Your Life:
Disclaimer: These are just some initial ideas to get you going. However, no one knows your Valentine better than you do so take the time to really think about what shes going to love and then do that. There are countless possibilities to go after and truly personalize. All Iam saying is take the time to care and plan something nice.

1. Spa Treatment: Whether you pick her up a massage, facial, or combination day this is a great gift idea. Look up some spots in your area. If you can, find one that offers some nice additional services. For instance, Blu Med Spa in Midtown has private changing rooms, custom slippers, personalized robes, teas, private showering areas, and a talented staff. Your girlfriend/wife/other will really feel pampered in a Spa like this. By the way, don't be intimidated to go in and purchase the package. Tell them you need some help picking out a gift and they will be more than helpful.

2. Shoes: Show me a woman that doesn't like shoes and I will show you a liar. ( That's twice I have reference women being liars in this piece..sorry totally accidental). If you can do the leg work before hand then get her shoe size and evaluate what she likes to wear. If you have been together awhile and you know her friends maybe drop them a line and see what kind of information you can dig up. You should be willing to drop a pretty penny on this idea though because there is no point in getting cheap shoes. If your not willing to commit to that then head on down to my next suggestion. Lastly, there is nothing wrong with planning a day where you plan to take her out and let her pick out her own pair of shoes. You should just make sure that you have something else planned for actual Valentines Night...an I.O.U isn't going to cut it fellas.

3. Wine Club Membership: Is your love interest a foodie? So many people have gotten into high end organic cuisine's and wines from all over the world. Why not find a well respected distributor who offers a six month club where once a month a bottle of red and a bottle of white are delivered right to her doorstop along with a description of the region they came from. This is great for you to both enjoy and spend some quality time doing together. I ordered one of these memberships for a family member once and they really are great. Wine Of The Month Club

4. B and B: The weekend get away at a Bed and Breakfast. There are so many great B and B's out there that offer a great, affordable get away opportunity. Iam not saying you even have to go out of state. Just pack up for a weekend and head to somewhere in your own state you have never been before. A small, mom and pop type of place can be romantic and alot more interesting than your local cookie cutter Hilton.

For the Gents:

1. Massage: Hey, what can I say? Guys get stressed to and if you've never had a massage then you don't know what your missing. Most people don't realize how much tension they actually experience day to day until after they have had a massage and can feel the difference. If he's never had one, get him one, he will truly enjoy it.

2. Jack Purcell Sneakers: Classic, clean, can be worn with jeans, slacks, and even a suit (in certain company). A great weekend shoe and an all around utility shoe that he will really get some use out of. Check them out here...Jack Purcell

3. Bottle of "_______": Whatever he drinks, get it for him. You cant beat being stocked up on your favorite liquor. Or better yet, get his favorite type (Vodka, Whiskey, Tequila, ect...) but upgrade to a premium brand (if he doesn't already drink that way).

4. Custom Fit Dress Shirt: A guy truly can never have enough of these. Nothing looks worse than a baggy, long shirt so help him out and pick up one or two of these. They work alone, with a jacket, with a blazer, with a vest, tucked in, untucked...the list goes on.

Good luck on all your Valentines Day ventures. Feel free to email me for more information on any of these items or if you have some ideas that you think belong on the list.

What You Should Be Drinking....Right Now

2010-02-01T13:06:00.000-08:00

Its the start of a new week and as your laying out your plans and looking at due dates and deadlines dont be afraid to take a break from it all. Shake up the begining of your week and mix your self a drink. My last reccomendation was an "Old Fashioned"-done Modern Gentleman style. Hope you got the chance to make yourself one of those and enjoy it, I know I did. Anyways, its time to move on and experience a new drink. Without further hesitation, enter, the Six Twenty Two. The recipet comes from Poppy in Seattle and was featured on Details website. Much like the Old Fashioned, the Six Twenty Two is a heavier drink and is primarily made with Rye Whisky (full recipet is below). I say fit in all your whisky drinking before the warm weather rolls around and your inclined to switch to something a little lighter. Heres the recipet for this great cocktail,
Ingredients
2 1/2 oz Old Overholt rye whiskey
1/2 oz Amaro Nonino
1 dash Angostura bitters
2 dashes Fee Brothers rhubarb bitters
Orange peel

How To Mix It Up
1.Stir together all of the ingredients except the orange peel over ice in a mixing glass
2.Strain into a cocktail glass
3.Strain into a cocktail glass
4.Using a y-peeler (or a knife), cut a fat strip of peel off the orange and squeeze the zest over the drink
5.Drop in the peel or hang it off the rim of the glass to serve

Visit Details for some other recipets and more information on where this drink got its origins.

Quote of the Day Sunday, January 31st: Get Your Week Started Right

2010-01-31T11:22:00.000-08:00

The following quote couldnt be any better for the personal experience that I had today. While sitting in my local coffee shop getting some work done I happened to strike up conversation with a gentleman sitting next to me. Long story short, this gentleman happened to be the director of sales and marketing for a hotel in Midtown and after exchanging information I had earned a great new contact in the industry. You never know when an opportunity is going to present itself. So, like many of my other posts suggest...be prepared. This upcoming week put your self out there more so than usual and open your self up so opportunities can present themselves to you. Have a great week.

"One secret of success in life is for a man to be
ready for his opportunity when it comes."
-Benjamin Disraeli

Saturday Style Tip: "Put A Sock In It"

2010-01-30T11:27:00.001-08:00

Another week is just about fully in the books and being that it is Saturday means that we have yet another "Saturday Style Tip". Finding your own personal style is pretty easy to do. It takes a little bit of exploration and experimentation but at the end of the day, its about you and who knows you better than...well, you. You have to do what feels right for you. These tips are simple suggestions of how to add small items to your closet to upgrade your look. This Saturday's tip is simple, socks. The first thing I want to mention is that unless you are wearing shorts, or its the summer and you are wearing a light colored cotton suit with loafers ditch the shorty ankle socks. It always looks a little strange when you sit down and your jeans, or slacks, ride up a bit and your left with your ankles and lower leg showing with your shoes or sneakers. So, that part is simple enough. Now, to elevate your overall look get some socks with color or an argyle pattern on them. If you are wearing business casual or even a suit then this is a great accompaniment but its even better if you get that extra splash of color when your out at the bars, or dinner or anything outside of work. Think about wearing dark denim and a shirt and maybe a scarf and your socks match the color of your scarf. Its the simple, small detail in pairing your look that way that says you know what your doing and you care. Plus its subtle enough that your not going way out of your way to be overly trendy and make some bold statement. Its quiet confidence. Don't go over the top with the colors. Look at the colors that you wear often and get some socks that fall in that color range. Blues, blacks, browns, reds, and them throw some argyle in there. (Photo by Paola Kudacki from GQ)

"Sew" you might not have expected this from the Modern Gentleman...

2010-01-29T12:28:00.000-08:00

Hows it going out there on this amazing Friday afternoon? Todays post might, at first glance, seem like a strange topic for someone who calls himself the Modern Gentleman but I promise you it is extremely relevant. I have a couple of vintage blazers that I get a whole lot of use out of. So much use that the top button that I am always doing and un-doing slowly but surely comes loose and eventually, falls off. There is nothing more frustrating than going to your closet grabbing your jacket putting it on and realizing that you cant fasten the button because its non-existent. What Iam getting at is that it is an extremely useful tool to know how to sew a button back on to a jacket. Until I learned for myself, if I pulled a blazer out and the button wasnt there then it would go back in my closet until I could get my girlfriend or her mom to hook it up--I dont like having to wait on other people to get things done. You might say that it is un-gentlemanly to know how to sew or to purchase the required tools to sew a button. You know what I say to that? It more un-gentlemanly to go out looking dumg because your clothes are missing buttons. Needless to say, in my opinion its important so Iam hooking you up this Friday afternoon with a quick guide to sewing a button back on. Enjoy, I guaruntee that your goinig to be glad you know how to do this after you read the quick guide.

1. Materials: The button of course, a needle and some thread. The color of the thread should match the fabric on your jacket.

2. Your going to need to get about a 1/2 yard of thread. Thread the needle and then move the needle so it is about smack in the middle of the thread and tie two small knots at the end of the thread connecting the two strands.

3. Put the button on top of the material where you intend to sew it.

4. Push the needle up through the bottom of the fabric through one of the holes in the button until the knot and the end of your thread catches the bottom side of the fabric.

5. Push the needle down through the other button hole through the top of the fabric.

6. Repeat steps 4 and 5 about three our four times

7. End with the needle on the back side of the fabric (the side without the button on it) and doulbe knot the rest of the thread to hold it in place.

There ya go, now you can take care of yourself and make sure you never walk out of the house looking like a fool missing buttons.

Four Bottles is Three Bottles to Many.....

2010-01-28T11:40:00.000-08:00

Early today I was reading some of the typical men's magazines and websites and I started to see a similar trend between all of the publications I came across. I was specifically looking for some information regarding cologne and what I found was typical and a little bit aggrevating. Most of the reviews and suggestions that I read were highly unrealistic. What I mean is that many of the articles suggested that every guy needs to have at least three or four different bottles of cologne. Not three or four bottles of the same so that when you run out you have a fresh bottle waiting for you, but three or four completely different scents all for different parts of your life. Look, I am all for having variety and for being prepared in any situation you might find yourself in. If you have read any of my previous posts than you would know that Iam constantly making suggestions. However, this four bottles of cologne nonsense is one piece of advice that I just cant get on board with. I think, at most, two different scents would be appropriate. A conservative, musk/wood blend with hints of citrus or fruit for the office and something a little sweeter and more bold for going out. Thats fine---but personally, I stick to just one. I like to have a "signature" scent. Something that those close to me know I wear, and I wear it in small amounts. I understand that maybe the guys with the highest concern for fashion and current trends might have four bottles of different cologne in their bathroom but that is not what most carry. Could you imagine traveling like that? A guy should never have more toilitries than the woman in his life and rolling with four or five bottles of cologne probably puts you pretty close to what shes packing. Something I have stressed over and over again in this sites early history is to be timeless and to not waiver with the trends. Pick a great scent and stick with it. Wear it correctly and switch it up....after your bored of it or find something better. Dont switch it up as you move from the office, to the gym, to the restaurant, to the bar.....its doing to much!

Still Looking for your signature scent? Heres some suggestions:
1.Kenneth Cole Vintage Black:

2.Yves Saint Laurent La Nuit De L'Homme

3.Tom Ford Grey Vetiver

Tie Colors are like a Gentlemans mood ring: What will Obamas say tonight?

2010-01-27T12:29:00.000-08:00

Another Wednesday and another week is half gone, I hope yours has been well up to this point. Unless you have been living under a rock then you are well aware that tonight brings us the long awaited, highly publicized State of The Union address from President Barack Obama. While representatives from the left and from the right are analyzing what the talking points will be and what they will mean, the Modern Gentleman is taking a slightly different approach. The colors we choose to wear represent our overall moods and our current positions on certain subject matter (even if it is subconsciously). Specifically, tie colors have always been a representation of how we feel or where we feel we rank in a certain social situation. So what color will President Obama be wearing tonight and what will that say about what he is truly thinking and feeling? Here's a list of tie colors and what they mean...tune in to the State of the Union tonight to see if his color choice represents his message...or if its a sign that hes not expressing how he truly feels.

1. Red: This is a power color and it symbolizes strength, wealth, leadership, passion and, in many instances, is a color of luck. Experts on the matter say that if you need to "lead your team to a hard victory" and instill confidence, than this is a good color. Could be a good choice for the President.

2. Blue: Blue is a calming color and seeks to express peace and neutrality. A hostel situation would be the perfect arena to sport the blue tie. Again, a valuable option for President Obama

3. Yellow: This color is a little difficult to break down and analyze. GQ ran a story awhile back that said that yellow was the new power tie. However, some feel that yellow represents energy and vibrancy. A strong personality is needed to pull this color off effectively and I doubt you will see this color on Obama tonight. Not because hes not strong but because the situation doesn't call for it.

4. Green: In business this represents money.....well at least growth and prosperity. My call is that this is another color we wont see on Obama tonight.

5. Brown: This color represents the average, everyday man. It says that your practical and down to earth and slightly reserved. There's no way you will see this color tonight.

There are definitely more colors that we could analyze here but these are the most common and the most probable. My official prediction is Red, although he may sport the blue to represent the color of his political party.

Upgrade Your Gear: Take Care of Your Shoes, Your Wallet Will Love You

2010-01-26T16:50:00.001-08:00

If your anything like I am then you know that shoes make or break your attire for a day. Ever see a guy walking down the street in a suit wearing New Balance sneakers? That combo goes together as well as Orange juice in your cereal, its just wrong. My Father once told me that shoes were the only thing that could make a thousand dollar suit look like a fifty dollar suit so make sure you get 'em right. Pretty good advice in my opinion. So, if you want to make sure your always on your shoe game its important to know how to care for them. Before I started actively caring for my dress shoes and even some of my sneakers I would burn through them like crazy. Hells worn down, laces frayed, discoloration, the whole bit. You don't want your shoes to look like they came from the Salvation Army (unless the thrift store thing is your bag and in that case, this doesn't apply to you). Here are some quick tips to help you take care of your shoes so your suit (or whatever you are wearing) doesn't depreciate in appearance....plus, the better you take care of your shoes, the longer they last, and you can keep some extra cash in your pocket. Nothing wrong with that right?

1. Wait 24 hours in between wear: Yes, don't wear the same pair of shoes on back to back days. At least don't make a regular habit of it anyways. Think about it. We don't "wash" shoes like we wash our other items of clothing. Can you imagine what a shirt would look like if you just wore it every day all day? The fabric would soak up your natural oils and dirt and pick up any grime that you encountered outside. Well, like I said you don't wash your shoes and they encounter alot of way-worse items on the ground then the rest of your clothes. So give em a break.You have to let the sweat and oil they absorb dry out or else they will age quickly.

2. Shoe Tree: You may have seen one of these in your Dad's closet or even grandfathers closet...well so what? They know what they are doing then. When you put your shoes back in the closet throw a shoe tree in to help them retain their shape while they recoup from heavy wear. This will eliminate any unnecessary indentations that wont come out, unsightly creases, ect...Also, use one of these if you have to pack your shoes in a suit case. You don't want them to get crushed.

3. Shoe Horn: This item is geared exclusively to your nice dress shoes that may be a little bit more firm around the ankle. You don't want to crush the backs of your shoes so get a shoe horn to allow your heel to slide easily into the shoe. Again, keeping the form nice.

4. General Fabric Care: The following is a guideline for how to clean and care for your different types of shoes. This particular list comes from Kiwi and you will find it is pretty much the same as any other guide line. Kiwi has been around since 1906 and many trust their products. (click on kiwi to get directed to their site).

Leather
1.Dirt and other debris can easily embed into leather. Therefore, your leather shoes or boots need to be cleaned before you start polishing. KIWI Shoe Brushes and Wipes can easily be used to remove excess dirt and debris.
2.To polish your shoes effectively, always remove the shoelaces from your shoe before you start polishing your shoes. This is the best way to get to clean the tongue of the shoe and avoid staining the laces.
3.For best results using shoe polishes or creams, first apply the shoe polish or cream evenly to leather shoes and boots with a brush or soft cloth. Once the polish has properly dried, simply buff to a brilliant shine using a natural bristle brush. Note that it is important to use a separate brush and cloth for applying and buffing different colored shoes.
4.If you prefer a more convenient alternative there are instant shine liquids. Simply remove excess dirt and then apply the liquid evenly to your shoes. The formulation restores color and dries to an instant shine - without the need to buff.
5.Use KIWI Protector products to help waterproof your shoes thoroughly to protect them from common stains caused by water, mud, dust, snow or salt.
6.Store leather shoes using a shoe tree, this will help retain the shape of the leather. If you can’t use a shoe tree (e.g. for strappy shoes), stuff the toe cap with newspaper or tissue. Never store or dry leather shoes near direct heat.

Suede & Nubuck
1.Your suede shoes deserve special attention. Make sure they are cleaned and waterproofed regularly.
2.If your suede shoes get wet, stuff them with newspaper while they dry to keep their shape.
3.Always allow them to dry naturally and never put them near direct heat.
4.Suede and nubuck shoes will look their best when brushed. You can use KIWI Suede and Nubuck brushes and cleaning blocks for this purpose.

Sport shoes
1.To extend the life of active or outdoor shoes (golf shoes, football or hiking boots), make sure you polish and waterproof them regularly.
2.Before polishing, first knock off the loose mud and allow your boots to dry naturally.
3.Use KIWI Fresh Force® shoe freshener with its unique up-side down, dual spray applicator, to control shoe and sneaker odor and to enjoy all day freshness and confidence

These are just a few quick tips to help you care for your shoes better and I hope you find them helpful. If you have any additional tips or hints on this topic leave a comment, it can benefit all who read.

Dont Get Stranded by a Tech-Dependence

2010-01-25T08:00:00.000-08:00

This weekend was alot of fun and pretty busy, Iam hoping yours was the same. Actually, at one point, I was having a little to much fun at a great bar in the Highlands called Noche. The drinks were great, the company was great, (music was just ok) and everything was cool until SPLASH, phone ruined in the bathroom. Ill keep it short and spare you the details but I will just say that texting and zipping up after a few beers and a few Jamesons can be a little tough. (Hey it was a friends birthday we were living it up-dont judge me haha). Needless to say, the phone is ruined and I have been technologically stranded but I plan to make the most of it. Alot of the short articles I write are tips, advice, and my ideas of what a gentleman needs to have. Well, in the pursuit of finding some good out of my current situation I have realilzed the importance of a good contact book. Others may call it an address book, black book or anything like that. Anyways, you never know when your phone is going to cease to exist but that doesnt mean that your life can cease to exist. You need important contact information whether for business or pleasure and a gentleman (or any adult) shouldnt make excuses-they should be prepared. Losing my phone has made me realize that not relying on technology and having a good old fashioned leather boud adress book in top shelf of my desk is priceless. All of your contacts right there in hard copy form so when disaster strikes you can move on with your daily life-Plus, I hate getting those facebook groups about once a day for "I lost my phone, I need numbers!". My advice: every gentleman should have a back up plan, go out and get a quality adress book and slowly copy your contacts from your blackberry to your book over the course of a week. Sometimes you just cant beat paper,pen and a dry drawer..far far away from the bar (ha).

Saturday Stlye Note: A new but regular addition to the MG Blog

2010-01-23T13:41:00.000-08:00

(Photograph above by Tommy Ton, featured on GQ's style section)
(Photograph above by Tommy Ton featured on GQ's style section)

I think Men have a responsibility to not be trendy. There is a large differnece between being stylish and being trendy. I feel that (this is strickly my opinion) a gentleman is someone who always looks good, put together, but most importantly, timeless. There are few pieces of mens-wear that have withstood the tests of time and there is a reason for that. You cant go wrong when you wear them. Heres a quick list of some of those items:
*tie
*blazer
*wing tip shoes
*tailored dress shirt
*cuff links
*plain white v-neck t-shirt
ect...
Iam not saying that different variations of these items dont go in and out of style but its not the item itself. Its the fabric, the color, the fit and so on and so forth. Anyways, in my opion a man can achieve true style by utilizing timeless items in subtle ways. For instance, if your worried that the items that Iam talking about are to stuffy or formal then play with them in unique ways. A tailored dress shirt with the top couple of buttons undon, dark denim with the cuffs rolled slightly (sloppily), and an un-structured slim fit blazer with a pocket square reads as both stylish and timeless. Or lose the blazer roll your sleeves up slightly but add a slim tie. If you want to go more casual than that its just as easy but do it in a timeless subtle way. Slim fit trousers (not jeans) with a white, slightly v-neck t-shirt (made with a heavier fabric than your typical undershirt) and a pair of plain ankle high Jack Purcell sneakers (or a casual dress shoe)does the trick. The idea is to have a good fit and something that is mature and made of quality materials. You can look great with only a little effort.
I plan on regularly posting items that I have purchased that fall into this category to keep you updated on some of the great finds I have come across and how to pair them accordingly. Look up a picture of Dean Martin, Frank Sinatra, James Dean, and tell me there isnt a "timeless" or "impossible" cool about them.

For Every Action There is a Reaction: Great New Spots to Dine In Atlanta

2010-01-22T14:09:00.000-08:00

Recently I have been thinking alot about the cause and effect factor that helps to stimulate and create a demand for new business and the exciting new products and services that result. For the purposes of this piece, Iam referring specifically to the hospitality industry (restaurants, bars, hotels, etc...). Many people reject large Corporations and prefer to do business with only local producers and service organizations. That is all well and good but we cannot forget what large Corporations or Franchisors do for the communities that we live in. The presence of calculated, formulated operations that provide a repetitive dining, drinking or lodging experience are what allow independent, "Mom and Pop" organizations to thrive. The more we are inundated with chain operations and their, somewhat, mundane experiences we are presented with fresh innovative ideas. The increased production of these large operations spurr a desire out of us to find unique, one of a kind experiences that we can enjoy and make our own. There are two great examples of this in Atlanta right now that I think people will truly enjoy.

1. Dinner Party Atlanta
Brought to you by the same guys who operate Top Flr (a great spot to enjoy some interesting cuisine and cocktails located off Ponce on Myrtle St.) Dinner Party allows its patrons to experience unique one of a kind cuisine. You can expect a fantastic five course menu created by an Executive Chef that blends French and Vietnamese flavors. The most interesting part about this dinning experience? Its completely exclusive. They don't operate out of your typical brick and mortar establishment. The locations change for every dinner and some of these locations have included airplane hangars, empty office buildings, barns and locations for the future will include the Federal Reserve building off of Peachtree Street (tentatively). The only way to experience this supper club is to get on their waiting list on the website (click on Dinner Party Atlanta at the top of this section). The dinning experience is fantastic because the locations are constantly changing, a sommelier is present at every event and you can meet people you would have never met otherwise. A great example of the entrepreneurship that stems out of a response to the mundane corporately owned experience.

2. Lunacy Black Market
A creation of Chef Paul Luna, Lunacy Black Market offers affordable food in a unique space full of antiques and local art (that is actually available for purchase). The space looks like an average family room of an "artsy" speak-easy type of house but the eating experience is fresh and exciting. As Thrilllist reported this week the menu has items such as "Asian-style pork w/ ginger soy sesame sauce; chicken w/ spinach, tomato & goat cheese; braised beef w/ roasted peppers and Ricotta". This is just another great way to break of the normal, boring dining experience and get into something new. Plus it doesn't hurt to support your local entrepreneurs and idea starters.

"40oz's to Freedom" at the Independent in Midtown

2010-01-21T10:14:00.000-08:00

While I dont always enjoy the refined flavor of a Miller High Life (haha) when I saw this classy offering at the bar last night I had to partake. Something about being served a 40oz with a nice chilled class was to good to pass up so I indulged myself. The only thing that would have elevated this experience? If they would have brought the 40oz in a champagne bucket filled with ice and set it up next to my seat at the bar. You can find this at The Independent in the Midtown Promenade shopping center near the midtown arts cinema. Not so gentlemanly I know, but alot of fun. Quick review of the bar itself, great place to go on an off night if you just want to get out. Its a strange scene (Nintendo 64 area complete with couches) but it does have some nice pool tables, darts, and a fairly attentive staff. Definitly not going to be the best time you have ever had but it is a nice filler for your middle of the week blues. Oh and by the way, the 40oz was six bucks so the break down is about $2 bucks for every twelve ounces just as an FYI.

The Worst Valentines Day Idea Ever

2010-01-20T07:35:00.000-08:00

It is just as important to stay tuned into all things un-gentlemanly as it is to stay abreast on all the great things that there are out there to experience. This is one of those stories that is completely UN-gentlemanly and I cant believe it even exists.

Do you have Valentines day plans yet? Well don’t worry if you don’t because White Castle (kind of like Krystal’s for all you true southerners out there) has got you covered. Yes the fast food establishment serving up undersized frozen patties on rolls offers a candle lit dinner complete with flowers and table side service. I am guessing the table side service consists of, “another squeeze of your ketchup packet ma’am”? This "candle lit dinner" takes place inside of the fast food establishment so you can enjoy the fine atmosphere that White Castle has to offer. Apparently, this event books up so they require you to call ahead and make reservations…HA! I wonder if they will serve Boone's Farm or Franzia boxed wines with dinner? That would make for a great pairing.......RIDICULOUS

I don’t think I have to go into detail on this one of why it is the most un-gentlemanly things I have heard of in a long time. You know I guess theres the saying, “to each his own” but I cant let this one slide and accept that this is an acceptable thing to be a part of. I mean, come on. I think that for one day a year you can elevate your situation a little bit and go without fast food for one night

Listen, Learn and Laugh-In Person, With A Real Person

2010-01-19T14:17:00.001-08:00

Over the past few days I have had the pleasure of meeting and speaking to a few experienced and high powered people. Included are the former Director of 3 of the largest hotels in downtown Atlanta, the former President of a large multinational firm and a marketing director. What did all three meetings have in common? It made me realize that actually meeting people face to face and just listening to their experiences is one of the most beneficial and entertaining things you can do. The people that I met had story on top of story, both funny and serious. Too often though we are victims of technology (funny because this piece of technology I am writing though is allowing me to voice this opinion) and it has made us bad listeners. We just don't have the patience for it. If we are actually meeting someone face to face most of the time the person on the other end of the table is to busy calculating what they want to say next that they miss what you are trying to say. People are the most valuable tools we have and we should appreciate them more. Not only that, but just spend some time listening to people. Its intriguing, and educational. Meeting someone and connecting with them is like plugging your laptop into the Internet....you are instantly tapped into their stories, their contacts, their experiences, and their advice. Why wouldn't you want to have as many of those connections as possible? I say we need to take the time to meet more people, and listen to what they have to say and what they have to offer. You never know how they could help you, how you could help them, or what you might learn in general. I was laughing my ass off at some of the stuff I was hearing....and if that's all that I got out of it (which it wasn't-there was much more) then so be it, I am ok with a new friend and a laugh

An Afternoon Salvaged Thanks to Chet Baker and Miles Davis

2010-01-18T12:27:00.000-08:00

Well needless to say that since today is a National Holiday (Happy MLK day everyone) last night resulted in a spontaneous Sunday night party which, is my favorite kind of gathering. Anyways, a little to much Jameson on the rocks and about four hours of sleep made getting started on my day today a little tougher than usual. Even though I didnt have anything to directly report to today there still was some catching up to do to get ready for the rest of this shortened week. The one thing that got me going and kept me going? Miles Davis and Chet Baker. Iam not saying that jazz music is appropriate for every setting but there are plenty of opportunities to really get into the music. While sitting at my desk and working from home I put on some Baker and Davis and it really elevated the experience. It took what would have been a pretty mundane task and made it relaxing and enjoyable. Something about the tone and the pace of the music made sitting at a desk responding to emails and reading about CRM (customer relationship management) enjoyable. If your not familiar with jazz or with the artists that I mentioned above then I suggest experiencing it ASAP. Next time your sitting at home working, or cleaning or just relaxing go to pandora and create a Chet Baker station and just let it play. For twenty something-year olds like myself I feel that jazz may be an unexplored genre of music and underappreciated. The lack of words lets you do some thinking on your own and also to personalize the listening experience. Its uplifting to so when your a little tired and hung over its the perfect remedy to get through your daily tasks....plus its not bad for back round music at a party when you decide to get back on the horse and pour yourself another drink.

Quote of the Day: Start Your Week Right

2010-01-17T14:02:00.000-08:00

Just a quick quote for the day to get your mind in the right direction to start the week...a good quote always gets me thinking and can be pretty inspirational. Give it some thought.

"We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves. If what we are now has been the result of our own past actions, it certainly follows that whatever we wish to be in future can be produced by our present actions; so we have to know how to act."

Swami Vivekananda

Eat Great At Home: The Underrated Meal

2010-01-16T12:36:00.000-08:00

Unless you are a huge culinary fan and enjoy cooking at home ( which many people are due to the popularity of shows like Top Chef and avid viewers of the cooking channel) making meals for yourself can seem like a huge undertaking. What should you buy? Where should you buy it from? Do you have the time to cook and clean up the kitchen after a long day at work? All these questions tend to lead people to settling for a quick fast food meal or spending tons of money eating out. Well, I have a great solution for those who get intimidated by the simple task of cooking a meal for themselves. Enter the Flat Iron Steak. This cut of meat is often overlooked by those that feel the Filet is the only way to go and that eating a steak is only for special occasions. The Flat Iron steak is more similar to a Ribeye in nature. Meaning it has a higher fat content and while, not being as tender, provides more flavor (in my opinion). Anyways, the Flat Iron doesn’t look like your typical steak and you don’t eat it in the typical way either. You slice it against the grain so you have flavorful strips of steak to enjoy. Furthermore, you don’t need a grill to cook it up. I live in the city and don’t have the luxury of a grill but this steak does great in the oven. Broil it at a temperature of 500 degrees for about six minutes on each side for a nice medium rare. I recommend medium rare because this steak is not as tender as other cuts. Also, one Flat Iron can easily serve two people however if its just you then save what you don’t eat and throw the strips on a sandwich for lunch the next day. If you are going to be enjoying this underrated cut of meat for dinner, than I recommend pairing it with a few red potatoes and some mushrooms, both of which are extremely easy to prepare. Not only is this meal easy to prepare but it is also cost effective. Your local grocer probably offers the Flat Iron for between seven and twelve bucks and mushrooms and potatoes together will cost you, at most, six bucks. One last note, no seasoning is necessary on this meat. Salt, pepper and cook is all you have to do. Eat great at home, don’t be intimidated. Washing it down with an ice cold beer never hurt anyone either…..

Quick Buy List for Your Convenience:

Flat Iron Steak
Red Potatoes
Mushrooms
Salt/Pepper
Butter (for cooking the shrooms).
Beer (optional, but not really…)

"Dont Mistake My Pocket-Square As Weakness"

2010-01-15T12:10:00.000-08:00

Just a quick thought today. Earlier, I was walking in downtown Atlanta wearing a simple black blazer, white shirt, and a pocket square. I noticed that people were staring at it as if they had never seen one before, or just had no clue what a piece of fabric was doing in my jacket pocket.Now, I feel that this story may be unique to Atlanta. If I were walking down a street in New York sporting a pocked square that would be average. I would actually probably blend in. However, Atlanta is a little bit different than that. What this quick story ultimately got me thinking about was the fact that so many guys think that dressing well means that they are soft. Or that only women should care about how they dress. Whats really funny is that the same guys who feel this way are the same guys who will wear Christian Audigier and Ed Hardy. Yea, because sparkly lions on your shirt is way more masculine than a slim tie/shirt and a nice pair of jeans. Oh and speaking of jeans, yours have rhinestones on them.....very manly of you. All I am saying is that guys need to stop being afraid of looking nice. Its a respect thing, for yourself and others. Who knows it might even help your game out this weekend.....unless you plan on "fist pumping" in the club all weekend..

GQ's 25 Sexiest Women of All Time: They Dont Make em Like They Used To

2010-01-14T11:25:00.001-08:00

Gq is constantly coming up with lists. 10 best ties for the spring, 20 must see movies of the season, and other things like that. Heres a list that you cant help but check out. The 25 Sexiest Women of All Time. If you scroll through the 25 pictures on their slide show (which isnt asking much seeing as the scenery is pretty nice) you notice that most of the women are from the 60's and 70's. Hence, "they dont make em like they used to". Most of the women on this list ooze sexiness because most of them (not all as you will see by some of the topless shots) leave enough to the imagination to drive you crazy. My favorite from this list? Raquel Welch from the 1969 film, "100 Rifles". Check this list out, you will enjoy

http://www.gq.com/women/photos/25-sexiest-women-in-film-slideshow

Remakes Are For The Lazy

2010-01-13T13:08:00.000-08:00

Its officially hump day and I hope everyone out there is having a great week. Mine has been filled with meetings, and plenty of cocktail outings so needless to say, I am having a great week. What I have for you below is from a contributing writer to the Modern Gentleman cause. Mike Wiley specializes in film reviews and critiques and does some script writing of his own with partner Derek King. These guys are great and you can expect big things from them. Anyways, Mike wrote a great article which I am showcasing below. Enjoy, I think he's pretty much right on.

This morning was pretty much like any other morning. I was out a little late the night before, I had a little too much to drink, the morning is really the early afternoon, and I am on Rotten Tomatoes checking out what new movies are coming out and whether or not I want to go see them. After stumbling through a few suspiciously but ultimately falsely titled articles, I came across the trailer for Hollywood's newest 70's classic big budget remake: The A-Team. Complete with "The Hangover's" Bradley Cooper, "District 9's" Sharlto Copley, the resurgent Liam Neeson, and Rampage Jackson of UFC fame rounding it out as Baracus, a role that sent a similar wrestler, Mr. T, to international stardom.

The trailer was pretty much as expected; a lot of really tightly shot action footage of extremely fit dudes and sleek cars and neato technology on top of some kind of needle thin plot loosely based on the television series. After it was over, though, I sat there thinking to myself: What are they going for here? And when I ask that question I don't mean what's going to happen to the character's through out the story, I mean what is the over all mood the audience is going to leave with, because there are a lot of directions one can take a 70's big budget remake. It can be tongue in cheek, where the audience and director are both sort of in on the fact that this is just a remake and shoots for a nostalgic type of melodrama and comedy, or it can take itself as serious as malaria and try to reboot an action franchise for the next generation of movie goers. Or it can fall any where in between, which is what brought me to my ultimate revelation. I don't really like any type of remake. I can't name ONE remake that has made me feel like my life was better for having watched it. I have never learned anything from a remake. I have never had a good conversation about a remake, atleast not a good conversation indicative of a good movie. I don't like them. They never seem to make much money at the box office so it seems like I am not alone in that sentiment. What I can't really figure out is why producers continue to greenlight this crap.

Now if you really wanted to get nitpicky, you could technically label Transformers and Batman as remakes, two of the most popular and successful movies ever, but one was guaranteed to sell, and the other one never really wasn't cool or went out of style. Transformers gave you that brilliant eye candy that can only be achieved through state of the art, computer animated robots. The kind of brilliance that gives every male from 6 to 36 a boner despite having one of the most atrociously written scripts on the planet. The kind of brilliance that guarantee's 300 million plus domestically at the box office. Transformers could have sold that many tickets even if it was helmed by apes, and that is not a shot at Michael Bay. Not really.

Batman is and always will be awesome. Period.

Now with those out of the way, what are we left with? Charlie's Angels? Charlie's Angel's Full Throttle? All those movies did was help McG ruin what could have been a fantastic Terminator reboot. But DAMNIT, there's that word again: reboot. Remake, Reboot, Retarded. For me it always comes back to the same problem. None of these movies know where they are going. None of them have an identity. They are a hollow shell of something that was rich, but could only be rich once. Something that was only rich the first time around, and nothing else could ever replicate that single experience. I imagine the writers and producers all sitting around, confusedly tossing ideas back and forth to one another and still arguing over the same problems and plot points. Should this be comedic? Should this exist in the same universe? Should we make Starsky and Hutch secretly love each other that way but never realize that love because their love of justice supercedes it? Overall, no conclusion they come to is going to make it live up to expectations. Movie goers are going to see the previews for months, building up plenty of nostalgia which hopefully bleeds over from the original generation's fan's to their kid's. The movie will open to a moderately to extremely successful first weekend, then everyone will realize it's not what they expected or a steaming pile of crap, and it will fade into the infinite darkness that is forgotten cinema.

But maybe Producers know this about remakes of already popular work. in fact, I'm fairly certain they do. They know that no matter how much time and effort they put into making this movie good, they will atleast make a little bit of money off of the movie with a sleek ad campaign at Taco Bell. Ultimately they could make a trailer's worth of decent footage, fill in the rest with home movies of the cast and crews baby showers and holiday vacay's, and it would technically still turn a moderate profit. Think about the last remake you saw and I think you will agree with me. In fact, here is a list of recent remakes that come to mind that were built up for months but ultimately let me down: The Omen, Dr. Dolittle, Flubber, The Avengers, The Brady Bunch, Mr. Magoo, George of the Jungle, Thunderbirds, Hold on let me catch my breath... Bewitched, The Producers, G.I.Joe, Cheaper by the Dozen, Charlie's Angels 1 and 2, and the list goes on. Hollywood is even churning out a remake of the 1980's Patrick Swayze cult classic "Red Dawn", which if anyone thinks about for half a second will realize that story is no longer culturally relevant and if Communist's did parachute in and invade the heartland of America, images of our missiles flying up their asses would be all over Facebook, MySpace, and Twitter before all of the soldiers had even jumped off the plane.

Now this means one of two things: Either the producers and writers are going to write the same story only this time it will come off as a steaming pile, or they try and write a different story, using the franchise name as a way to sell tickets, and it still comes off as a steaming pile. It is lose lose for the movie goers and just down right selfish of producers. Is there really a lack of decent original material so drastic we had to turn to "Red Dawn"? Really? I just don't believe it. I refuse to believe it, and with the recent success of Avatar (a completely original work), you shouldn't believe it either. Remakes are for the lazy, and the blame falls on both sides. I think as a lover of the cinema I will no longer see remakes of anything from now on. If everyone takes this mentality and starts asking for more from directors and writers and producers, then they will have no choice but to deliver. Insanity is defined as doing the same thing over and over, hoping to get different results. If that is the case, then I don't see how you can define continuing to produce remakes as anything other than that: Insanity. I invite you to take this pledge with me, and hopefully we can stop the nonsense, stop the insanity, and create a much more productive, enjoyable, and memorable movie experience.

Sincerely Yours,

Michael Wiley

What You Should Be Drinking Right Now: The Old Fashioned

2010-01-11T15:37:00.000-08:00

During this time of year drinks can start to seem a bit monotonous. Its mid January so your typical heavy winter drinks are starting to grow old on you but its to soon for lighter summer cocktails. Furthermore, I have always said to drink what you like and not be afraid of what people think but I do draw a line at some point. A man should pretty much always avoid over the top, fruity, sugary cocktails but thats getting away from the point of this post. The suggestion I have for you today stradles the line between the Winter and Summer cocktail. So here it is what you should be drinking right now

*******The Old Fashioned

This cocktail is simple and refreshing but the fact that it is made with bouron gives it that extra body and warmth you are still looking for this time of year. Now I do have to say, like many recipes, there are multiple versions of this drink and you can customize to taste. I like, and advocate, the simple straight forward ingredients below. However, some do use a cube of sugar, or some bitters. This is my interpretation that I would like to pass on to you to enjoy tonight, tommorow, or whenever your next drinking occasion occurs.

Bourbon
Club Soda
A lemon wedge

Thats all you need to have a great cocktail. Plus, the flavor is not over powewring by any means which goes to say that you can have a couple of these and not get over powered by pointless "mixers"

The Power Of The Local Pub

2010-01-10T13:27:00.000-08:00

The quote that follows this post below is a great one and is perfect for what I wanted to talk about today. I think every man needs to have his go to pub or his neighborhood bar. A local bar to a man is what a psychiatrist is to a patient or what a salon is to a woman. Its where you feel comfortable. Its where you can go by yourself and enjoy a drink and good conversation. Its where you can go when you are stressed out and feel your trouble melt away...even if they only leave you for the duration of your cocktail. I recently went to my favorite neighborhood bar and there was such a warmth there and friendly atmosphere I just felt like I was at my second home. Now, I dont frequent this bar everyday but its always there for me when I need to get out and get away. Its amazing what a good drink, a good bar tender and a good atmosphere can do to lift up your spirits for an evening. I really do belive that every man should have his favorite local bar and support it. Its such a great benefit when you have found your local spot and it doesnt have a mandatory monthly fee or membership dues or anything like that. Its just there for you whenever you need it. A true Modern Gentleman always has his favorite hide away. Its like the old quote, "Behind every great man is an even greater woman". I would like to ammend that quote and say "behind every great man is an even greater woman and behind both of them is a fantastic pub".

Quote Of The Day: January 10th, 2010

2010-01-10T13:25:00.000-08:00

There is nothing which has yet been contrived by man, by which so much happiness is produced as by a good tavern.

Samuel Johnson
1709-1784, British Author

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2010-01-10T13:11:00.001-08:00

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Everyday Items Every Man Should Have

2010-01-09T10:38:00.001-08:00

The other day I joined a good friend for lunch to catch up on what has been going on in each others lives. All together the lunch was pretty standard and it was an enjoyable break from the normal day to day grind. However, as we were closing out our lunch and walking to the door my friend stopped to sneeze and pulled out a handkerchief. I immediately took notice of the simple piece of fabric and said, "How long have you been carrying that around?" His answer was simple and straight to the point, "I always have". The reason I bring this up is because it is such a small accessory but yet it was so strange to see someone in their mid to late twenties using one. It got me thinking though about the things that used to be standard for every man to carry. Back when it was customary for every gentleman to carry a handkerchief it was simply second nature to have one. In the same way that we would never walk out of our houses without our blackberry's or ipods there were certain things that a man never left home without. The kicker is that they always had a purpose and I was amazed at how effortlessly my friend (a product of the eighties) kept one and used one. A man should always have what he needs to conduct himself in the right way and he should never have such items as simply for show. For instance, my grandfather always has carried a very small pocket knife in his front trouser pocket. Its so second nature to him that I am sure he forgets its there but it never fails, whenever I have been around him there has been a need to use it and he pulls it out effortlessly and puts it back away as if everyone carries such equipment. My point is that so many of us younger guys have forgotten the "code" of what it takes to make sure you are always put together. Here's a quick list of the things that I think every man should be carrying on him.

1. Handkerchief. No one wants your germs and no one wants to see your nose running. Use one and don't display it. Keep it subtle.
2. Quality pen. Simple enough. You need to sign a document, write a phone number down, make a quick note to yourself. Its a simple item that can make a pretty bold statement about you and your taste.
3. Small pill box. A man should never be "whiny". Keep a small pill box on you or in your briefcase or messenger bag. Have a headache? Don't complain about it, do something. Keep some Advil in there and maybe some heartburn meds. Especially if your headed straight to work or any other plans straight from a long night out.
4. Quality watch. Not every situation allows you to pull out your phone to check the time. Its a great fashion statement and its useful. Your standing on the corner and a beautiful woman asks you for the time....don't fumble in your pockets for your phone. Effortlessly pull your sleeve back and give a quick response. Plus, you never know who you might impress with your choice of watch. These things can make a difference.
5. A sleek wallet and always keep some cash on hand. To many times I have made the mistake of not having cash for a valet or to split a check with a friend. A simple leather wallet of high quality will do the trick and a twenty on hand at all times is a good standard to follow.

Fantastic French Press.....I have been converted

2010-01-08T10:12:00.001-08:00

Iam not afraid to admit that I can be a coffee snob. Yes, I have refused coffee from friends and family because it tastes like bitter water. Yes, I have visited a starbucks three times in one day. So what? I feel like if you are really maximizing your time then coffee is a must. What I mean is that when I am out until three or four in the morning and then I have to get up at eight thrity or nine I need a little something to get me going. After you do that enough times you start to have a prefference for coffee and my prefference happened to be for the strong, bold, bitter taste that starbucks coffee has. To speed this up for you, I am at a point where I pretty much always have a cup of coffee in hand and I gotta tell ya, that gets expensive. Even straight black coffee is $2.50 and the hasle of leaving early to get to your meeting or where ever you may be headed to to make sure you hit a starbucks is annoying. Enter the French Press. I was sckeptical, and I though that this simple device was going to end up in the same place my standard coffee machine did...in the trash. Up to this point, nothing has been able to match the strengh of flavor that you get from the actual coffee shop. However, now I stand corrected and I would recommend the French Press to anyone who is similar to me. First of all, its easy...second of all its cost effective...lastly, it eliminates the hasle of planning around a trip to the coffee shop. You can still buy from your favorite store but you can buy a bag of their beans instead of a cup. The press retains oils from the beans (unlike your coffee mate standard machine) and gives the coffee more body and more flavor. If your like me you wont be convicned until you try it. So do it....by the way, a recent study showed that heavy drinkers who woke up the next morning and religiously had a few cups of coffee were far less likely to have liver damage. Things are looking up! The press that I own is made by BODUM and their prices range from $20 to $100. Check their site out and make the switch.....www.bodum.com

A Tip of the Hat to Texas and to Garrett Gilbert

2010-01-08T09:56:00.000-08:00

As you may or may not know, this blog comes to you right out of Midtown, Atlanta. With Atlanta being a major city in the South that means it is impossible to not get caught up in college football hype. Personally, I am an NFL fan (Steelers all the way...a true fan not a bandwagon fan). Either way, I knew that I would find my self at a party for the BCS National Championship game and I would have to choose sides seeing as how I dont have a loyalty to Alabama or Texas. Due to the fact that I have more friends and family ties to Alabama I went with them. Needless to say (if you watched the game) picking Alabama was the right way to go. However, I just wanted to give a "tip of the hat" to Texas's second string true freshman quarterback. The last game this guy probably played was in high school and here he finds him self running into the game on the second drive and it is up to him to win the Nation Championship game. Talk about pressure! Garrett Gilbert (Texas second string QB) started out a little shaky but by the second half he was confidently completing passes and at one point got the game to within three points (21-24). Now, Gilbert was unable to finish what he was thrown into and Texas did eventually lose but lets give Gilbert some credit. The guy stepped up to the plate when his number was called. I am not sure if we will be seeing a lot from Gilbert in the future but he handled himself how this blog believes a Gentleman would. Step up, do your job, dont complain and give it all you got.

Quotes of the Day: Thursday, Jan. 07.

2010-01-07T10:24:00.000-08:00

What a great way to kick off this blog, and a great way to get this regular feature going; with a quote from Frank Sinatra. Probably the original bad ass......and one of the coolest gentleman to ever do his thing.

"I feel sorry for people who dont drink. When they wake up in the morning, thats as good as they're going to feel all day". - Frank Sinatra

"I am not one of those complicated mixed up cats. I am not looking for the secret to life...I just go on from day to day, taking what comes".- Frank Sinatra

Away We Go! I just broke a bottle of Champagne on my laptop.....

2010-01-07T09:54:00.001-08:00

Have you ever met someone who has that impossibly cool way about them? Its a subtle confidence that is contagious. Its walking into a room and capturing it in a completely unpretentious way. Its not being to good for some and only associating with a select few who share your interests. Its about being a conversationalist and being able to get along with anyone, no matter how different you may be from each other. Its looking good without looking like you tried.Its being worldly and having a wealth of knowledge on a wide variety of subjects. That is what embodies the Modern Gentleman and that is what this site represents.Please note, I am not claiming to have all these qualities. This is going to be a journey to become that Modern Gentleman and also a learning while doing experience for me. Hopefully this will be an entertaining,enjoyable,and informational experience for you. The end goal? Finding a sense of whats good in a confident yet subtle way...in every area of life. So welcome and I hope you enjoy whats to come.